Cathy Maxwell | The stress of the holiday season is already upon us!
And it has always been that way. Not because we are doing anything stressful. What can be stressful about seeing family and friends? Okay, let me rephrase that—what can be stressful about seeing friends?
The truth of the matter is that it isn’t a bad thing to try and do too much. It isn’t bad to push ourselves a bit or do a little extra. These shorter days beg for us to do something especially cheerful. But what is bad to not take our time and enjoy the doing of it.
One of the ways I de-stress is with books. Hey, books are the best entertainment bang for under twenty dollars—many times less than five. If you go to your library, they are free. Reading helps you keep real worries and fears in perspective or gives you insights into other people’s lives that you can apply to your own, even in fiction. Perhaps I should say most always in fiction. I always feel revitalized after spending time with characters I love. Plus, I’m one of those read-at-bedtime people. It’s “me” time at the end of a long day.
Right now, I’m helping Sid Halley solve a murder in a Dick Francis book. I’ve just finished Kristan Higgins TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE which will be out soon. Delicious contemporary romance. Sort of a Gilmore Girls meet Susan Elizabeth Phillips. She has three other books on the shelf now that you can enjoy before her new one is out and I suggest you do (look up CATCH OF THE DAY). I also devoured an advance reading copy of a Tracy Anne Warren historical romance that is classic Beauty and Beast titled TEMPTED BY HIS KISS. Warren always delivers a great read.
I have a book out now, too—A SEDUCTION AT CHRISTMAS—that has been, thankfully, flying off bookshelves. It’s the beginning of a new series for me that we are calling “Scandals and Seductions” and will give you a glimpse of how the Regency celebrated Christmas which was very much a family holiday and meant it had to have a few stresses! Avon Books has also repackaged YOU AND NO OTHER, the third book I wrote and my take on the Sleeping Beauty story. I think the covers for both of these books are absolutely divine. Each would make a great stocking stuffer. If you’d like an autographed bookplate, email me your mailing address http://www.cathymaxwell.com/. Let us not forget what great reading weather we’ll find in January and February!
But whatever you do this holiday season, please focus on the people you love. They alone give life meaning. And, yes, they are worth the stress.
So share with me, what books have you been reading? You know I have a radio program titled “Books!” where we operate under the belief folks like talking books and we haven’t been proven wrong. I’m always looking for books (even classic ones) to recommend . . .
Cathy Maxwell
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10 Comments:
Hi Cathy! Happy holidays to you and yours :)
I'm reading SEP actually. I've only read one of her books, "Ain't She Sweet?", so now I just started with "It Had To Be You", and of course it's awesome.
I've also been reading new author Julie James' "Just the Sexiest Man Alive" (very fun and sexy), Judith James' "Broken Wing" (amazing), Erin McCarthy's "Flat-Out Sexy" (and it is sexy. Loved it) and Julie Anne Long's "Like No Other Lover" (wonderful). There's a lot out there to enjoy.
Hiya, Stacy--
Thanks for the heads up on some more new writers. Some of the best writers in the industry are writing romance!
Hi Cathy! Your bright warm smile always puts me in a better mood. I'm kind of the Grinch around here, I don't much like the stress of the holidays.
I've stepped out of my historical box, only a little. I just recently read Carly Phillips' Lucky Charm and Lucinda McGary's The Wild Sight, both of which I was pleased with.
In an attempt to bond with my oldest daughter who recently moved out on her own, I read a book she recommended by Ron and Janet Benrey, called Glory Be. Dd will only read inspirationals, but I discovered something. DD likes fun lighthearted romantic suspense. Now I know where to look for Christmas gifts.
I'm currently reading Her Warrior Slave, by Michelle Willingham. Suzanne Enoch's reprint By Love Undone is next in line. Followed by, hmmm, oh yeah, In The Highlander's Bed. (I'm a bit behind.) Then I'm going to try and catch up on Eloisa James' Duchess series and Lisa Kleypas.
I'm very much looking forward to Anna Campbell's Tempt the Devil release.
Thanks for a wonderful blog,
Renee
Thanks for the compliment, Renee! And for the great book recommendations. I think Suzanne Enoch is wonderful.
How about some kid suggestions? Anyone discover these Bioncle books? I didn't know what they were until I had to get a gift for a twelve year old male. He wanted the character, which I dutifully purchased, but I had to tuck in a book. All part of my evil plan to get folks to read. I chose the Bionicle Encylopedia. How handy is that?
Oh, dear, well, during stress moments like my husband's heart attack, I pick up "literary" vampire books. You know the ones with no romance AT ALL in them...just lots of blood and gore. No idea why, it just seems to work for me.
I was handed a new one KEEPER OF THE LIGHT AND DUST by Natasha Mostert. It is due out April 2009 and it combines "magic, science, martial arts, and the greatest desire of all, to live forever."
Maybe that is why I go for the literary vampire books during stress periods. Who knows? LOL
Sara Reyes
Sara, the vampire books must keep the fears away. Something that fills your mind without reminding you of what is at stake. (I'm sorry, I didn't mean the pun. We can all groan now!)
I had an email from a new reader who said she discovered my books at the triage center while her mother was going through chemo. Lots of waiting around time with a too busy mind full of "what ifs". She said I kept those fears at bay.
Stories nourish us on so many different levels, don't they?
Oh, I don't know about kid books. I know the boy has read a few Bioncles. I would really like to check out Peter and the Starcatcher series.
I have my kids read classics, like A Christmas Carol or Sherlock Holmes. They loved The Saturdays and A Cricket in Times Square. I like to add culture books too, like The Kite Fighters or Young Fu of the Upper Yangtze.
I guess I had more of an idea than I thought.
I had a friend tell me once that she didn't believe in happily ever afters. To her romances were like fantasies that helped her escape from the drudgery of single parenthood and poverty. Romance books are her one splurge. I found her confession shocking and eye opening.
I'm not shocked, Renee. I believe reading is a form of escapism--even non-fiction reading. However, I am convinced that even those, or perhaps especially those who claim they don't believe in happily everafters want to believe in them all the way down to the souls. How could a person get up and face the day without such a belief?
You are right, Cathy. I've always believed in happily ever after, I think that is why her thoughts shocked me so much.
And we are going to keep believing in them . . .
That is the power of fiction--even though this woman fears a happily everafter doesn't exist, she can battle her doubts with a good read. For this Christmas season and New Year, I'm going to hope she meets someone who makes her believe again. People often forget how special and wonderful then are. It isn't just about putting faith in another person, it's also believing you are worthy of that happily everafter love. So many women fear they aren't. Makes me want to give 'em all a big hug and a slap on the back to get out there and live fully, happily, and with complete faith.
Whoops! On a soapbox.
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